Choosing my hard

There is a caption in my gym at Eve’s Exercise Studio, in Harare that goes: “Losing weight is hard Maintaining weight is hard Staying fat is hard Choose your hard”  In July 2017, I decided to choose my hard even harder because I had always been a very active person – I choose to lose […]

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I have learnt

I have learnt that it’s not the amount of money I have But what good that money can do for the rest of humanity and me as well I have learnt that it is not about “looking” for money But establishing a healthy and sustainable relationship with money I have learnt that I could have […]

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Towards essence…

    Recently I had my second session with my coach and I was forced to revisit my childhood. It was one of the hardest things I have had to deal with and I am not sure why but I guess I had never looked at that stage of my life with such a renewed […]

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An Open letter to My Father

My dear Father Today is Father’s Day. It started out quite interestingly. My children asked me if you were alive. I was tempted to say you are dead but the Christian side of me won and I confirmed your being alive. They asked me to send you a “Happy Father’s Day” message and that they […]

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Daughter of Africa

My life has never been an easy one I am born into a family where boys define the carrying of a family name When a boy child is born, they ululate and dance as if their legs would break The hanging of heads signifies the birth of a girl child Oh, motherland, but it is […]

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Question and refine your reality – woman!

Last night I had a conversation with my mother. She is a deeply religious woman whose prayers, guidance and love have been very useful to propel me to where I am today. However, that conversation got me thinking about the reality of women because she kept mentioning to me, “that is how things were created […]

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Sleep and sleep some more

Today I woke up exhausted – Yes I did “sleep”. I did do whatever needs to be done to make sure I have a good nights rest. But of late, I have been exhausted and am not sure why I just cannot get some to sleep. It is such a frustration reality that am at […]

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Reflections for May Day

Today is 1 May 2017. It is a public holiday in many countries as we acknowledge those who toil day and night to make ends meet. Despite the notion of it being part of a capitalist notion, it is here and so we think what we can in reflection of this day. My mind is […]

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Love thy neighbour…

Today I felt a deep wave of love. I have been sick as I recently had a hysterectomy – 22 December 2014 to be precise. Well as is the tradition when one is unwell and hospitalized or even at home recuperating, visitors come to wish you well. I have had tremendous support from my partner, […]

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Discovering, becoming and being The Essential self

I am super duper excited because I had one of my last sessions with Alicia and we both reflected and celebrated the progress made in the past year. As a Type 8 personality, there are quite a lot of things that I have grown to be and loving where I am going. Like I did […]

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